Career, Take Four. This Time, With Cookies

By Kathy Zucker • Saturday, January 18, 2014

Every time I have a baby, I destroy my career.

What does it mean to destroy a career? Simply, whatever job I was doing before I became pregnant is no longer there when I return. Prior to baby #1, I was a marketing director for a hospital that closed. For baby #2, I was the executive director of a healthcare advocacy group. And for #3, I was the marketing director for a beverage company.

Why does each career end? Because I hand off my clients. I have horrible pregnancies (and yet, I have three kids – all planned). Bed rest, medical complications, you name it. Mercifully, the recoveries keep getting easier. Even with my body bouncing back quickly, adding a new member causes a seismic shift in family dynamics. Sleep deprivation, mom disappearing after 8 pm to breastfeed all night, dad winding up with more and more kids on his hands for the overnight shift. It takes about a year after each birth for my family to adapt.

Meanwhile, work waits for no one. By the time I resurface, recharged and ready to take on the world, my clients have all moved on. It makes total sense – you can’t disappear for 18 months and expect to pick up where you left off.

So how do I resurrect my career each time? With cookies. My kids will tell you I bake AMAZING chocolate chip cookies. And before you ask, no, I don’t have extras lying around. Between my marketing clients, school lunches, and spousal raids, triple batches of cookies disappear in record time. I’ve taken to hiding them in a cooler on our balcony – thanks, polar vortex for freezing more than just traffic lights!

Cookies are conversation starters. Nobody can ever stay stressed nibbling on the lacy browned edges of a homemade cookie (I put less flour and sugar in than the Tollhouse recipe calls for because we like the way it tastes).  Time after time, I see a client’s eyes close in bliss and his troubles slip away for just a moment as the taste hits his tongue. And yes, it’s always a guy eating my cookies. The women are on diets.

And then, when the client is relaxed, we talk. And catch up. We talk about kids, money, real estate. Whatever is at the top of our minds that day. And people tell me what their plans are. So when I was thinking about getting pregnant with baby #3, my two biggest clients told me they were planning to start major new projects in two years. Given the inevitable delays and cost overruns that come along with being an entrepreneur, I figured I had closer to three years to deal with pregnancy and recovery. And I was right. Two of my former clients are majorly gearing up in recent months, and who is the first person they call on to advise on business plans and market demographics? Yours truly. And the timing could not be more perfect because mama’s got a 22 month old and child care bills to pay.

I am loving getting back to work. In between the occasional naked toddler streaking through my office, career number four is off to a rousing start.


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Kathy_roundKathy Zucker, CEO of Metro Moms Network and Managing Editor of Metro Mom Magazine, mother of three young children and New York Life Keep Good Going Shorty Award winner and judge, writes about juggling career and family in an urban setting. She blogs at, tweets @KathyZucker, posts pics on Instagram, gets down to business at LinkedIn, cracks jokes on Facebook and gets outdoors on Youtube. Email is Kathy@MetroMoms.Net but the fastest way to get in touch is Twitter or Facebook.



Kathy Zucker

Author: Kathy Zucker

Mom of 3. Accidental entrepreneur. Fencer. New York Life Shorty Award #KeepGoodGoing winner & judge. Helping parents & kids get to work since 2010 as Metro Moms Network CEO.

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  1. Love it and am jealous at your cookies. It’s the one baked item I’ve yet to master. And YES! for adaptability and doing our best to have it “all”. We may be tired but we’re filling our souls and our financial goals!

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    • Kathy Zucker

      Kristen, we need to get together and trade skills because I STINK at cooking. My go to kid meal is a bowl of fresh fruit or veggies followed by peanut butter toast or noodles. Some days are better than others but I am LOVING my portable office, complete with streaking toddler. Raising my glass of milk to you and your amazing accomplishments as a career woman and mother of three, you are an inspiration!

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  2. Kathy,
    Now I want to try your cookies! Seriously, your resourcefulness, warmth, generous nature, and top skills is what keeps your clients coming back for more. I think the cookies are an added bonus.

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    • Kathy Zucker

      Estelle, will have to create a secret cookie hoard just for you, luckily the FREEZING weather is on track to continue this week! You have some serious skills yourself, am inspired by your many accomplishments to keep pushing forward and never being afraid to reach for leadership roles.

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  3. Cookies and careers, I like those words together! Here’s to whatever take four brings your way!

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    • Kathy Zucker

      Anna, the Shorty Awards have thrown a whole new element into career #4. Hang onto your hat, I have a ton of stuff coming in 2014!

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